Splitting - Divorcing the Borderline or Narcissist written by an attorney (William Eddy) who specializes in divorce and BPD
http://www.bpdcentral.com/books/splitting.shtml
DIVORCE - The Real Truth, The Hidden Dangers Surviving Deception, Betrayal and Narcissism - Ann Bradley, M.A.
http://www.narcissisticabuse.com/divorcebook.html
Love and Loathing" Kreger/Williams
http://www.bpdcentral.com/books/loathing.shtml
You're My World - Guide to Custody
http://www.bpdcentral.com/cds/youremyworld.shtml

SPARC Separated Parents Access and Resource Centre - be sure to check their article archive
http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/index.html
Steps to Protecting Yourself During Divorce
http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/protect.htm
A Guide to the Parenting Evaluation Process
http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/guide.htm
SPARC FAQ site
http://www.deltabravo.net/faq/
Tips on Keeping Documentation
http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/tips1.htm
Is your X Bad-mouthing you to the kids? - Parental Alienation Tactics
http://www.deltabravo.net/faq/visit_ans8.htm
FAQs of divorce/custody/visitation and more
http://www.deltabravo.net/faq/
Recommended Lawyers List/Guardian ad Litem/Custody Evaluators
http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/attorneys.htm
Choosing a Custody Evaluator
http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/evaluator.htm

Understanding the Batterer in Custody Situations (MUST READ!!)
(Check Link)
http://www.lundybancroft.com/pages/articles_sub/CUSTODY.htm
http://www.lundybancroft.com/pages/articles.html
http://www.thelizlibrary.org/liz/understanding-the-batterer-in-visitation-and-custody-disputes.pdf
ASSESSING RISK TO CHILDREN FROM BATTERERS By Lundy Bancroft and Jay G. Silverman
http://www.lundybancroft.com/pages/articles_sub/JAFFE.htm
(Note: Lundy Bancroft website not responding Apr.10/04) Here's a link to Lundy Bancroft's page at Amazon:
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0761922776/104-3554625-3559968?v=glance

Successful Tips, Tricks and Tactics - Divorce, Custody and Co-parenting
http://groups.msn.com/NARCISSISTICPERSONALITYDISORDER/successfultipstricksamptactics.msnw

Dr. Vaknin’s page “The Narcissist in Court”
http://samvak.tripod.com/faq78.html
Pathologizing the Victim by Sam Vaknin
http://groups.msn.com/NARCISSISTICPERSONALITYDISORDER/toxicrelationshipspathologizingthevictim.msnw
Divorce and the Narcissist in Court
http://www.narcissisticabuse.com/divorce.html
Divorcing the Narcissist
http://www.narcissisticabuse.com/divorcen.html

 

Fathers and Dads Rights (custody/etc.)
http://www.fathersrights.org/
Dads Against the Divorce Industry (great site**)
http://www.dadi.org/default.htm
WHAT HAPPENS IN A CUSTODY DISPUTE WHERE ONE PARENT IS MENTALLY ILL?
http://family-law.freeadvice.com/child_custody/custody_dispute_parent_ill.htm
http://family-law.freeadvice.com/child_custody/

General Child Custody Questions
http://family-law.freeadvice.com/child_custody/
Personality Traits of Parents And Developmental Needs of Children in High-Conflict Families Philip M. Stahl, PhD
http://www.parentingafterdivorce.com/articles/highconflict.html

High Conflict Divorce or Stalking by Way of Family Court? The Empowerment of a Wealthy Abuser in Family Court Litigation Linda v. Lyle - A Case Study
http://www.mincava.umn.edu/documents/linda/linda.shtml#top
Articles
http://www.mincava.umn.edu/library/read/

Resource Centre on Domestic Violence, Child Protection and Custody
http://www.nal.usda.gov/pavnet/cf/cfrcdomv.htm