NOT looking for a bdsm relationship, to be your slave, or for anyone to be my master.  What I seek is to find loving husband to share life with, with an understanding that he is HOH and I am not.  He knows that I need to be spanked.  He likes doing it, whether it is for discipline or for pleasure.  He is educated and respected.  He wants a woman that will show him that respect.  He sometimes must become a "daddy" when his wife becomes a child.  But he understands this and uses corrective action to make the changes. 

Very strict disciplinarian and dominant is seeking a submissive woman who is seeking a relationship based on a foundation of spanking and Domestic Discipline. She should need and want both disciplinary spanking when she has been naughty as well as good girl spankings when she has been well behaved.

I believe in and practice true Domestic discipline and the woman I seek will want that as well as a healthy, loving and committed D/s relationship. I am very strict but also kind and loving and definetly believe in balance in all things including D/s and DD. I believe in the man as HOH and I also practice many of the philosophies of "Taken in hand" for those who are familiar with that website.

I am very sincere, intelligent, attractive (I have pictures to exchange) and financially as well as emotionally secure. I have many interests including, travel, food and wine, diving, golf, tennis, hockey, football, reading. Ideally I would like to find someone in Western Canada but I do travel regulairly for work and am open to a long distance relationship that can lead to us being together in the same place.

 

If you are serious, sincere and think we might be a good match please drop me a line.

Completely starting over........

 

I moved to a new province, started a new job, and became single all at once in this past year.  I'm 34 and feel like I'm not finding what I'm looking for, as far as a relationship goes.  I haven't been going out since I've been here, therefore not really knowing anyone, and taking on all daily responsibilities and independance myself.  Not that this is a bad thing........but it does get tiring. 

 

I have been going through lots of issues since being on my own, and lying to myself that I'm handling them - but I'm not.  I have no problem working, or cleaning or other general daily activities.  What I seem to be having a problem with is managing the finances (why can't I spend what I want?? :) and coming up with any sort of goals or plans for the future.  Hmmm.. yeah, definately need help in those areas too.....

 

Problem is, and I'll mention this upfront - I was never really kept in line.  By anyone, parents or otherwise.  I always said I feel like I never grew up, and I think now it's because I've never had any sort of boundries or discipline.  I suppose it's not to late to realize that this likely has contributed to how chaotic my life is at times.......but on the other hand, you can imagine how someone never having that in their life might behave.  (not good......)  I tend to try and "push the limits"  - I assume to see what I can get away with.  I have NO idea why I continue this when I'm aware of what I'm doing.....doesn't make a whole lot of sense, but that's what I do.  I do know that I enjoy looking after people, even if I don't show it at first.  I'm loyal and dependable and need people around to take care of.  I'm looking for a long-term relationship as well though, not someone just seeing "what this lifestyle is all about".  obviously if it doesn't work out then it wasn't meant to be, but I need someone willing to try. 

 

It would be great to find someone who is experienced in this as well - not a requirement to talk to me, but might be a huge help for someone knowlegable to help me understand why I act out like I do........

 

can't hurt to chat and see how things go :)

Hello, This is my first time posting on a DD/HOH site.  I am a 34 year old professional woman.  I am out-going, fun and friendly.  I have medium to long blond hair and I am pretty cute. I have never been married and have no children, although I would love to have children with the right man.   I'm going to be completely honest.  I went through a tough time a few years ago and put on a lot of weight.  Currently, I weigh 250lbs.  However, I think that under the guidance and structure of my husband in an HOH/DD marriage I would be able to get back to my normal weight.   It is my complete desire to be in an HOH/DD marriage. I have a variety of interests and I am up for almost anything.  I love watching movies at home, or going out to the drive in.  I love camping, as much as cottaging.   I am happy to spend a quiet evening at home, or go out to dinner with friends.  I  love to go to the movies and the theatre and I enjoy going for walks.    I have never actually had a DD/HOH relationship before.  However, I have had the desire for as long as I can remember. I tried, unsuccessfully to bring it up in my last relationship, but he did not take the role of leadership and disciplinarian that I so desperately needed and wanted.  Please do not misunderstand my lack of experience in a DD/HOH relationship for hesitation or resistance.  I wholeheartedly seeek a man that is comfortable in the role of HOH/DD. I seek a man that will  keep me in line, in all aspects of my life.  I want to look to him for guidance, love, support, comfort and discipline.  I believe that it is my role to meet my husbands needs.   I want to know that when he speaks, he means buisiness.   The mere change in his tone of voice will let me know that I have displeased him.  However, I also want to know that he values, loves and adores me.  I want to be treated like his princess, when I deserve it.  In terms of discipline, I want to know that if I step out of line that there will be consequences given in love.  I desperatley need the loving discipline of a long spanking, whether it be on the couch -over the knee, or after being marched up to the bedroom and told to bend over.  I will need a stern lecture to be sure that the lesson has been learned.  I also look forward to the opportunity to please my husband in every way.  Although I will admit that the idea of being spanked by my husband does turn me on, this is not a game to me.  I am not looking for casual sex or role playing.  I intend for this to be a mutally agreed upon lifestyle, that should bring satisifaction to both of us.   If this sounds at all intriguing, please send me an email and picture. Blessings,
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Hi :o)

 

I just turned 22 years old, and I'm 5'3 and 106 lbs. I love acting, I've done some Shakespeare performances (I'm doing Hamlet right now), and I love figure skating (I did it competitively when I was younger, but now I just do it for fun). I'm pretty active, I like going to the gym, I like keeping in shape, I think that's important. I'm well educated - I just graduated with a Law Degree from London, England, and I have a great sense of humour and there's a definite sparkle in these eyes ;)

 

I'm looking for someone a bit old fashioned. Someone who knows how to treat and look after a girl properly. I'm very loving and loyal, I'm easy to get along with and definitely not the stressed, wound-up type. I love trying new things, travelling, doing anything really....I can be a bit of a brat but it's all in the charm ;o)

 

You don't have to be very local if you want to talk to me, but if you think we might get along, just message me and let's talk and see what happens :o)

 

Hope to hear from you!

avreyjade

 

I am a healthy, active professional gentleman in my 30s that loves being outdoors, watching movies, perusing bookstores, and learning new things. I enjoy everything from sports to opera. I am looking for a female who is as comfortable in a black evening gown as she is in jeans. She is assertive and most of her friends and family would never guess her secret inclinations to be with a man that knows how to discipline his lady. She have always been naturally inclined toward a domestic discipline relationship, but until recently, did not experience it. She is very clear about what she wants in a relationship with her man. She is not into roleplaying, games, BDSM, she seeks a man that has a natural desire to be in charge, but does not feel the need to bully or humiliate his woman. Her ideal man is very self-assured and knows how to talk and listen. At the same time, he knows when the time for talk has passed and he needs to take matters in hand. She seeks a long term, serious relationship with this man. Casual sex and casual spanking do not interest her. She wants to long to spend time with a her man, walking, talking, dining, dancing and sharing her live and time within the structure of a domestic disciplined relationship.

Seeking submissive woman for long-term relationship.  I'm originally from New York City and have been retired from the military since 1992.  I'm 54 5'3" 150lbs with brown hair, hazel eyes and an athletic muscular build.  I'm searching for traditional woman who believes that a relationship should be equal with the man as head of household and able to provide for his family whether it be financial, emotional or physical.  Unfortunately in this day and age where most men need to be taken care of by the women they are with, has forced women to take on the role of men, and it's rare to find a woman with traditional values.

I am a young 54 y/o divorced female, educated, no drugs, no diseases, nonsmoker.

 

Looking for a normal dating relationship with eventual kink behind closed doors.

I want a dominant man, not a switch.

 

I enjoy politics, geology, history, astronomy, cooking, nature.

 

I am not looking for a playmate. No married men.

I am looking for someone who wants to share life with a woman.

Sincere replies only.

 

Thank you.

Hello, I'm Bob, I’m from Illinois, I live approximately 45 miles NW of Chicago and about 10 miles from the Wisconsin boarder.  I'm 57, divorced for over 15 years now and have children that are grown and out on their own.  I would like to meet a slim to average size white or Japanese woman between the ages of 47 and 54 form this area or one that is willing to relocate.  She must be looking for a 24/7 DD HOH relationship in which she will know her place and understand that the HOH sets the rules and runs the home.  This relationship must be based on love, trust and respect because without that it is just a game.  So if you're a game player and just want this in the bedroom  not 24/7 in or out of the home, please don't read any further or respond.   Also I'm not looking for a woman that just enjoys being spanked,  if she enjoys a fun spanking now and then that's OK.  Remember the DD stands for Domestic Discipline not fun and games.  Besides spanking discipline would include things like corner time, being grounded, no TV, no phone use etc, etc.  To tell you the truth I would prefer a woman that knows her place and enjoys being in a DD HOH relationship that required DD only when necessary.  Don't misunderstand me I'll train you and teach you your place if I must but hopefully you already know that.

 Now after all that is said and if you've gotten this far, good, maybe you're interested or maybe you're just reading because you think I'm a nut case but hopefully not.  Some of the things I enjoy doing with the woman I love is going to a movie or play now and then and going to dinner a few times a month, I also enjoy doing the simpler things in life with her like taking a walk, going for a bike ride and just having a nice relaxing evening with her.  We would also do the things she enjoys doing but she would have to ask never tell me she would like to do something.  I also enjoy golfing and camping (I don't camp much anymore) and if she enjoys those thing, good.  If not that's OK because she doesn't have to enjoy everything I do, but it would be really nice if she enjoyed golf.  If she was really good at golf I may even tell her she can win once and a while.  Just kidding about that, if she wins she wins.  So I guess I've said enough and if you are interested E-mail me and we can chat, get to know each other and see what happen from there.  Who knows after we get to know each other one day we may take that long walk together and end up getting married?   The next step is up to you, all you have to do is e mail me.

 

     Bob<o:p></o:p>

 

 

I am atypical for my age. At 33, I have never dated and still a virgin. I believe in keeping this as a gift for my husband on my wedding night. I am looking for a Christian who can love and support me. I am 300 lbs, 5' 5", with auburn hair and hazel eyes.

 

I wish for a man that can be a gentlemen when needed and stern as well. I have issues I need consistant help with. I wish for my partner to be able to help with these.

 

If you are interested in more...please let me know...I am knew to all this and I am not sure how to the best I can with this.