This page awaits your sharings of how you were able to come to terms with yourself. It will pick up on the ideas you post on the Message Board. My hope is that a clear process will emerge from your the sharing of your experiences. What you did that helped, what is not helpful. The fears that you battled with, how you overcame them. Lets see what emerges.
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Ways i've found to help me heal and put aside guilt is that no matter what God has forgiven me, whether I think I deserve to feel forgiven or not, if you ask him to, he has promised that he will. Also I made a baby book for my sweet baby, and that helps me, I take it out and read it from time to time.  | |
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| From: Rainbow | Sent: 02/06/2004 01:24 | | Two great things I remember from my weekend are.. One, one of the ladies said when we were all getting upset in a very soft calm vocie "remember to breath". The other is something the same lady said.. "sad is not a bad thing, you can live with sad. Its when grief takes over you thats the problem." Rainbow..oxox | |
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| From: Poppy | Sent: 20/12/2004 17:37 | | One way which has helped me on the path to healing is writing a letter to my babies - I also had several miscarriages - and giving them all names .... Poppy | |
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| It can be very healing to write letters. I find it's one of the best ways to get your thoughts/grieving out. Some things you come up with might astound you as you didn't realize you had that buried inside. Writing letters to our babies is a good thing to do Poppy. It gives them acknowledgement as well helps us heal. Very therapeutic. Hugs, Lynda | |