Co-dependency, Enmeshment, Enabling "Who can so softly bind up the wound of another as he who has felt the same wound himself?" Thomas Jefferson "You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you." Walt Disney Co-deps.com http://www.codeps.com/joomla/   The Compulsion to Repeat the Trauma Re-enactment, Revictimization, and Masochism by Bessel A. van der Kolk, MD http://www.cirp.org/library/psych/vanderkolk/   Addicted to our Mates http://love-addiction.com/loveaddict34.html Enabling Behaviors http://shalomplace.com/res/enabling.html Characteristics of Co-dependency (CoDA site) http://www.coda.org/codapatt.html Co-dependency and the 'Rescuer' Behaviour http://www.drirene.com/cofam.htm Negative Bonding - The Rescuer and Bird with the Broken Wing http://www.growingaware.com.au/BONDING_CASES4.htm Love and Stockholm Syndrome: The Mystery of Loving an Abuser by Joseph Carver, PhD http://www.drjoecarver.com/stockholm.html Overcoming the Need to Fix http://www.coping.org/control/fixing.htm Tell Me More About Control Why do abusers & victims both appear abusive? by Dr. Irene http://www.drirene.com/tellme.htm The Enabling Personality http://www.coping.org/lowesteem/enable.htm Enabling vs. Helping (Borderline PD) http://www.borderlinepersonality.ca/borderenabling.htm Miranda Shaw - The Life of One Narcissistic Enabler http://www.angelfire.com/home/mirandashaw/ Joy2meUsite Robert Burney http://www.joy2meu.com/Siteindex.htm Understanding Co-dependency http://jmm.aaa.net.au/articles/5228.htm Twisted Co-dependent Thinking http://joy2meu.com/Codependent_thinking.html Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls by Robert Burney Joy2MeU site http://www.joy2meu.com/Codependence3.htm Co-Dep Dysfunctional Relationship dynamics http://www.joy2meu.com/codependent1.htm Enmeshment http://www.soulselfhelp.on.ca/coenmesh.html A Questionnaire on Co-dependency http://www.nmha.org/infoctr/factsheets/43.cfm Co-dependency Charactistics http://www.recovery-man.com/coda/symptoms.htm Co-dependency - Dr. Miller http://www.rhiannon3.net/cs/article22.html Co-dependents as Emotional Vampires http://www.joy2meu.com/codependency_vampires.htm I am responsible for... (from Melody Beattie's Co-dependent No More) http://www.recoveryresources.org/responsible.html Co-dependency websites http://www.dating-singles-action.com/relationships/codependency_in_relationships.htm Healthy Relationships, Co-dependency, Boundaries http://www.ou.edu/womensoc/healthy-relationships.htm Breaking Free from Co-Dependence by Kathi Stringer http://www.toddlertime.com/interest/co-dependence.htm Co-dependents.org http://www.codependents.org/ Personal Responsibility - Ending Co-dependence http://www.geocities.com/kerry_l_dennis/MPD/Articles/responsibility.html Emotional Abuse site Robert Burney: Co-dependency/Inner child http://www.suite101.com/welcome.cfm/codependency_recovery Abandonment/Engulfment Issues http://www.growingaware.com.au/selves_cannot_help_with_abandonm.htm Understanding and Changing Self Defeating Beliefs http://www.rational.org.nz/public/BeliefsQuestionnaire/welcome1.htm A 12-Step Online Workbook http://www.proactive-coach.com/12steps/how-to.htm

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