Looking for friends to hang out and eventually building a relationship with the right person. It does not matter to me that you are pregnant and I love children. I am a great listener and love social chatting and hanging out. If you want to chat or meet up at a restaurant for dinner, coffee and chat. I travel often and love meeting new people. I am completely real and sincere in my offerings.

 

~David

Hi I'm 36, single and 11 wks....I'm happy to be blessed with the chance of becoming a mom, but sad that it happen with a guy who was a jerked. Yeah he ran out of town when I told him I was pregnant. 

 

Oh well what can one do, just but him behind and let the good time roll in.

 

 

If you want to chat here I am,

Hi everyone, first off, i would like to say that i am very happy to find a site that is dedicated to single pregnant women and their issuesfor support.  It feels good to know that i am really not alone in my dilemna.  i am 24 years old and 10 weeks pregnant.  I am with the baby's father but i really dont know how long that is going to last.  There is alot of distrust

going on on his part, and mine; but mostly his.  I've been with him goin on 7 years now, and the past 2years have been rocky.  Im not happy with him anymore, the love slowly died

over time because of all the shit that he's put me through, and vice versa..   Now he is trying to deny that this is his baby when he knows it is.  I am feeling very alone in this right now, i am

just wondering if anyone has had to deal with being pregnant and having a baby alone, and how they managed to get through it.  Because i dont know if he is going to be

by my side the whole way, and i dont want to be selfish and get an abortion because im scared of being alone.  I've already had 3 abortions in the past 5 years, so i decided that i cant get

anymore.  But the way i've been feeling lately, so down and alone and depressed because of his juvenile denial, (ontop of being sick and feeling crappy every day) i've started to contemplate

getting an abortion.  But thats not something i really want to do.   I dont have alot of people in my corner, or a good support system to keep me up, so that is why this is becoming hard for me.  If anyone has some sound advice as to what is the best thing for me to do in this situation, or just some kind of encouragement from anyone who has been alone while pregnant and after; and turned out fine, please do email me.  I could really use the feedback; positive or negative.  I just want to know peoples honest experiences with this and how they got through it.

 

 I am 30yrs old and am eight months pregnant. I also have a 8yr old daughter. I am not envolved with either of thier fathers. My daughters dad is abusive, and the babies father I a pregnant with now is a cross between a player and a pimp. Needless to say he provides me with absolutely no emotional support. I blame myself for getting involved with these types of men. My daughters father was my first love, and we were married. He wasnt willing to grow and was content with a poverty stricken lifestlye. I wanted more. I was only 23 and had dreams of a higher standard of living. I was willing to accept where we were, as long as, we were striving for more. I enrolled in college, and shortly he became to resent me for being in school. He felt like I was using him as a way to get a better life and then I was gonna kick him to the curb. I was also working at the time, so I have no idea where he was coming from. All of his friends were in the fast life. They were pimps, and drug dealers. They always had money and could always pay for things. My husband was always broke and this begain to embarrass me. I was turned on by the money and clothes so in bad judgement I started working as a waitress at a gentlemens club. This lead straight to escorting and I was envolved with pimps. I believed thier lies and false promises about attaining wealth and just aquirering basic things like a car ,a house, and nice clothes. I stayed in for 6 yrs and all the money I made wasnt ever mine. I could never take anything with me whenever I felt like I had had enough. Last January I found out I was pregnant, and the man I was with was cool at first. I quickly begain to see how out of his own despiration to make sure his money didnt stop he started pushing me away. He didnt even really want to sleep with me anymore, and I am a beautiful girl. I concluded that he had other intrests on the streets that he was tending to, and being with him was becoming extremely lonely for me. So I left him and went to rehab. I have always known who Jesus was in my heart but I hadnt been living for Him at all. I rededicated my life to Christ and came home after spending 30 days there. The man I had left I had been with for three years, and I loved him so much. There is no true love in the game and I now know how true that is. When I told him I was coming home he seemed happy. He even sent me some money to help assist in my return. As soon as I got home he came to see me, and took me out to eat a couple of times. He wanted me to answer his escort phone lines and give calls out to various girls in the area. That was inappropriate because I am living at my mothers house, and she isnt going for that. When I told him I couldnt answer the phone for him anymore he hung up on me. Now we barely even talk, and I only see him on the days of my prenatal visits. Thats proof of how selfish the game is, and I discourage any girl that has ever considered that lifestlye. The only one that wins in the game is the man, and for him the time is short. He just doesnt know it. What goes around comes around.   Anyway I am not bitter or upset. I have a long life ahead of me and I plan on going back to school after my baby is born in September. I will find happiness in a relationship again, and I refuse to give up on love.  It is hard being alone after giving the man in your life all of you, and he acts like it was nothing. I just feel as if I was casting my pearls before swine. If you throw a diamond in a pig pen, the pig doesnt know its a diamond. I am a diamond!

 

Hi Im 25 year old single mother of 2 boys, ages 3 and 5, and am expecting my third child this November. Father is not involved. Just would like to meet someone to talk to and relate to.

My name is edward. white male, 5'5", black hair, brown eyes, average build.

 

Intrests: Animals (loves Dogs), Readingbooks, writing stories, horseback riding, hiing, swimming, baseball, basketball, movies, malls, good sense of humor, computers and video games, hanging out, quiet nights with friends, family, and helping others.

 

I saw this group and decided to join up to see if i can help others. im in virginia and anyone can contact me here or at Va4ver@yahoo.com or Yahoo Messenger Va4ver or AIM Morp24. hope to hear from some of you, ok thansk for your time.

 

Edward

Hello to all I am a 26yr female with a 7yr old daughter and I am currently expecting. 9 weeks along now. I am excited and just looking for a great friend to talk to through this journey. It is always great to have someone to talk to.

I got back with my babys daddy in everythings going great. but i snooped through his cell phone in he has naked pictures  of his otherbaby moma . in he still has her pic on his cell phone but he said he took those pics wen they where together should i be mad about it or should i just leave it alone.  the phone dosent work in minnesota cause its a chicago cell phone but im just wondering y he still has her pic on his cell phone im kinda of mad about that what should i do.

Just looking for someone to relate.  I am a 26 year old mother of a 5 year old girl and i'm 12 weeks pregnant.  My relationship with my first childs dad didn't work out and we split up when my daughter was a year old.  Im now pregnant by my boyfriend of 2 years( on and off). We decided to try to get pregnant(not very smart).  Ever since I got pregnant my relationship has changed for the worst.  It wasn't great before but it's even worse now.  I beleive my boyfriend has bipolar disorder and he gets angry  with me real easy.  Ever since I've gotten pregnant it's been a roller coaster. Some days I want to be with him and he's really nice, and other days he is in a terrible mood and so mean I want nothing to do with him.  I feel like im so stuck and if I wasn't pregnant I would leave him and be free.  I don't want to split up because I don't want to have 2 children with two different men and single.  I don't beleive in abortion, but I find myself contemplating it.  My family is disapointed in me and not very encouraging.  I already have such difficulties dealing with my ex about my daughter, and I don't want to go through the same difficulties with another man and another child.  I love being a mom and want to have this baby, I just wish I could be happy about it.

HI im kim my babys dad moved in with me 2 weeks ago and  he just  left me at 4am in the morning today monday the 24th. He went back to chicago  while i was sleep in he also has another new born baby in chicago but i dont know y he left me. I was really good to him in he just left me im so very hurt right now i dont know what to do i feel so bad he left me im a great woman and we got a 2 month owe baby still in the hospital. I cant believe he did this to me ive been  cying today and i feel so hurt in heart broken what should i do please help me im still in shock that he  did  this  to  me.

Hi, I am single, 33ish years old. I have three children, 17, 3 and 4 and am now expecting what may possibly be my last.

hi im kim 24 years old in im with this guy i had his baby 1 month ago. in he lives in chicago in has 2 other baby momas in for the past 3 days he hasent been answering my phone calls. in he doesent call me like he use to.  he said something wrong with his phone in every time we do talk  he always say ill call u right back and never call back.  wen we  do talk sometime he sounds so phoney on the phone like he dont know whats going on wen i ask him a question. well any i love him so much and im sad right now what should i do everythin was all good till 3 days ago please let me know what to do.

Iam 20 years old and eight months pregant  i feel like I am all alnoe the babys dad is an ass he trats me like shit and all I can do is love him more when I told him I was pregant he told me to get rid of it and we can be togeather I couldnt do that he has not talded to me in three months and  now Iam hearing from all of his friends that he said I tricked him and traped him he calls me every name in the book and Iall I can do is think of him I have dreams about him ever night I miss him so much I can think of any thing else I know he has cheated on my so many times but I what us to be togeather so bad I dont know what to do any more I try to talk to someone and they just tell me to forget him thats the problem I cant hes in my every thought and now I am haveing a baby with him he said he wants nothing to do with me or the baby its my baby not his and I am fine with that I just want him out of my head it sucks I have been hurt so many times he was going to be my last chance  i was very carefull and tried to do every thing right and ended up not be able to be my self I know that I got the best thing out of him mistake or not Iam going to have a beatuiful son and I know Ill be a great mom no matter what I want him out of my head and dreams and I dont want to feel alone  

I am 31 and 8 wks pregnant. I was with the father of the baby for a little over two years. I gave him everything I had to give, financially and emotionally.  I thought this was going to work, I really did....I thought loving him like I did was good enough.  I found out I was pregnant three weeks ago and he took it better than I thought. He said he was happy and wanted to really commit to this relationship. He has threaten to leave before but always managed to come back and work things out.  A couple of nights ago we got into an argument, stupid really...I was moody I assume from the pregnancy and I gave him "attitude", well we got into a fight and he said the most hurtful things a man could say to a woman. He said he was ready to leave me and so he did. He left and I have not heard from him.  I know I can do this on my own but it's hard enough to just end a long term relationship, but to top it off I'm expecting his child!  I'm relief to know this happens to other people, not that is a good thing but it makes me feel I'm not alone.  It didn't take long for him to look at singles sites, personals and calling his friends to go out on the town.  He makes me feel like I didn't matter to him, I was nothing to him....and it hurts a lot! I don't know if it hurts more because I still love him or because I feel so stupid I fell for someone like him...that's my story and I hope I feel better as the days pass.

I am 31 and 8 wks pregnant. I was with the father of the baby for a little over two years. I gave him everything I had to give, financially and emotionally.  I thought this was going to work, I really did....I thought loving him like I did was good enough.  I found out I was pregnant three weeks ago and he took it better than I thought. He said he was happy and wanted to really commit to this relationship. He has threaten to leave before but always managed to come back and work things out.  A couple of nights ago we got into an argument, stupid really...I was moody I assume from the pregnancy and I gave him "attitude", well we got into a fight and he said the most hurtful things a man could say to a woman. He said he was ready to leave me and so he did. He left and I have not heard from him.  I know I can do this on my own but it's hard enough to just end a long term relationship, but to top it off I'm expecting his child!  I'm relief to know this happens to other people, not that is a good thing but it makes me feel I'm not alone.  It didn't take long for him to look at singles sites, personals and calling his friends to go out on the town.  He makes me feel like I didn't matter to him, I was nothing to him....and it hurts a lot! I don't know if it hurts more because I still love him or because I feel so stupid I fell for someone like him...that's my story and I hope I feel better as the days pass.

Hi all. My name is Jackie and I am around 5 months pregnant. I am 21 years old. I am pretty scared because the father doesn't even live in the same state as I do anymore!  Right now I am feeling pretty scared and alone. I  am looking for others to talk to who are in a similar situation! :) Email me if you would like to talk!

Hey All. I'll be 23 years old on December 25th and my baby boy Josiah is due on January 25th. I'm from originally Chicago, my bab's father is too but we met in Georgia. My baby's father and I were together 2 1/2 year before I found out he was being unfaithful. About six months later we became involved in a sexual relationship and I come up pregnant. It was funny how I found out. My bestfriend had just given birth to her daughter three days earlier and BAM! I cried so hard. I did not want this man apart of my life (4 ever) because I know he's no good (yea my stupid self still messed with him though) He, of course, did the "not the right time in our life" dance and asked me to get rid of it. No way, no how...I told him if he didnt want it then he can remove himself from my life. I'm a military lady, with a full time job (I can deploy to the desert any day) and I'm taking classes. I changed my number and basically forgot about him. He tried hard to contact me (after getting another girlfriend, an STD and maybe another female pregnant, he doesnt know I know this) and apologized for acting the way he did and said he wants to be there for me.. I talk to him now...but only becasue I dont want to be alone.... I hate doing this by myself.

My name is Tiffany and I am 19 years old and am 6 weeks pregnant. I am scared out of my mind! I am attending kansas state right now and plan to be there though my pregnancy. This is a hard pill to swallow for me because the baby's father lives 3 hours away and is not sure what he want to do yet. My parents and family live 3 and a half hours away and I feel like I am doing this alone. I have many friends up here but I feel like none of them can realate to what I am going through if anyone has any support or would like to share their story with me please e-mail me at tiffanyd@ksu.edu!

Hi,

 

  I am a 23 years old and 10wks pregnant. My boyfriend is physically and mentally abusive towards me before I was pregnant and also now that I am pregnant. He kept telling me that he will change once we found out we were pregnant but he is still the same old person that I've been with for 3 years. I am a college student and in mylast year. I don't know what to do. I keep telling my self next time he puts his hands on me that I'm going to call the cops- and when i am about to call the cops he threatens to punch me and or it gets him upset cause he doesn't want to go to jail. But i can't take it anymore. I need help. I don't know how to go about getting any type of Gov assistance if i become a single parent living on my own. I do not qualify for medicaid because i make 11/hr- which is crap cause i really need it. So if anyone out there knows what I should do please talk to me-Please don't say to just leave. cause it is hard when you have no money and carrying a baby. Please I need advice

I am 26 years old and just found out i'm 3 months pregnant.  I am so scared and depressed.  My ex-boyfriend is being mean and so evil.  He is acting like it's all on me and we were together for 2 years.  I am sure after I have this baby I will hate him for this.  I lost everything including my pride messing with him after I knew he wasn't the kind of man that could be with a woman like me.  I come from love and he comes from abandonment.  I never thought he would ever do me like this though.  I was sure we would be friends at least.  The fear and rejection has got me bursting into tears all throughout the day and night.  I wake up with feelings of emptiness and desperation.  My parents have been married 30 years and my grandparents 50, I have this idea it wont happen for me being that everytime I love someone they end up rejecting me or cheating or hurting me real bad.  Will this pain ever end?  I am convinced that no one in the world is like me and I'm all alone.  How am I going to raise two kids by myself? Its already hard enough with just one.

I am 20 years old. I am currently 14 weeks pregnant. The father of my child had a secret page on a web-site that I found that said he was singleand had various women on his page...I flipped out. I called him then drove to his job gave him the rest of his stuff he had at my house and asked for the house key back. I thought for sure he would have known that I had a reason to be upset and that he would itleast come to my house and talk to me. Anyways long story short I am EXTREMELY depressed. I can't eat, sleep or even stop crying and it's already been a month since he's been gone. I am VERY scared for this baby to come and scared that it won't be healthy because of my depression. He is the only guy I have ever been with,and we dated three years. He is my first love the only one I had ever fallen in love with. He was the person I relyed on to truely make me happy. I feel very alone with a baby in my stomach. I look at my belly and cry because I feel like I'm not strong enough. I lay in bed and cry to God. I just don't know what to do anymore. Anyone who has a kind word to say or ANY advice please e-mail me.  jpack86@yahoo.com

I am 25 years old I got pregnant when i was 18. My son is just starting the first grade, i have been working nights and weekends just so i don'thave to pay for childcare it is too expensive. It has been just me and him since he was born! It has been a long road, i have done nothing but struggle to get by and to top it all off i have been distant from my family ever since i told them i was pregnant. I thought that now my son is in school all day i could find a way to start taking some classes at school so i can finally get somewhere and stop working these dead end jobs in the resturant business. I had been dating this nice guy for alittle over a year, i thought things may finally fall into place this year..........wrong! I just found out that i am pregnant again, and that "nice guy" well he isnt sure if he is really ready for this. So now i am struggling financially and emotionally of course. I am barley making ends meet as it is. I don't have anything from when my son was a baby, i wasnt planning on having anymore kids. All my maternity clothes, crib, swing....................... everything is gone. I have to start all over again, i just don't know what to do now. my school plans are shot for now. How am i going to afford another baby when i can barley afford myself or even the child i already have. I just don't know what to do or even where to begin to change my life. If anyone could help me out with anything or even advise please let me know it would be greatly appreciated.

Im 38 yr old pregnant woman, not getting along with ex boyfriend, one night back with him turned into this, I offered this child to him on a silver platter for him to have to raise himself, he had always told me he wanted a kid, what a lie. so, Im thinking about giving up for adoption. I very confused at this time, Im low income and have another older child from a previous marriage that ended long ago, I wanted to go back to school but now Im pregnant, I do not think I want to raise this child myself like I did before. I have put my career on hold long enough.

any help please email to realwomanhere@hotmail.com

I've gone through most of the stories on here and i'm hoping that someone can help me out alittle. I'm 20yrs old and all this started when i went home (indiana) for christmas vacation to see my boyfriend of two years, while i was there i realized that things just weren't the same and he became someone that i didn't even know anymore. He was really protective (never let me outta his sight) and he also start to make unwanted sexual advances toward me. After a heated arguement i told him that i was going to go stay at a girlfriends house but instead i went and stayed with a good guy friend of mine that i have known since i was about 15 and we had done stuff before but we never dated. Well one thing lead to another and we ended up sleeping together the next day i went back to my boyfriends and we got into another arguement and he ended up raping me. I called my mom in Florida crying telling her that i had to come back as soon as possible but i needed someone to come and get me. My step dad came and rescued me from what i now call hell. Now i'm 16weeks pregnant i told my friend that i'm pregnant and that theres a chance that its his (we didn't use protection) but i also know that it could be my ex's and i no matter what will not talk to him again after what he put me through. The only problem that i'm really having right now is that i talk to my friend every day even though hes soooo far away and i'm starting to like him. He is handling this way better than i could have ever imagined but sometimes i feel like he just wants to be with me cause he feels like if it is his child that its the right thing to do. But what if i keep developing this feeling for him and we find out that its not his????? What do i do??????

im a young man i has 27 year i like to meet some one has very experience in life and love and i like to be responsible for familly

 

im athletic very sportif

 

I am a 26 and just found out I was pregnant, with my first. I am 5 weeks along and scared out of my mind, mainly about what are people going to say that  I'm not married or even in a relationship. The father and I have been involved on and off for a few years but never serious though. He and I had gone through this 2 years back which ended in abortion. He is pretty pissed at me right now... but he is in Michigan and I live in Cali. we fly back and forth a few times a year. I dont have a big support team bacause i'm too scared to tell anyone... I want to do this and deep down I know I can I just need a little reasurrance.

 

Please need advice.

 

 

calichicc23@yahoo.com

 

i am !7 years old and 5 months pregnant... i have been abused beatin threated and homless by the father of my child... by the which has cheated on me and now claims that he is not able to have kids... i resorted to sex in order to feed myself on the daily bases and have mony to go to my dr. appontiments... my only problem is... i have called every childrens, women and homeless shelter and none have vacancy... my last resort was to commit a crime in order to go to jail... now that im out... what do i do... protitution is not for anybody

i am 14 weeks pregnant and 22 years old. i am in my last year at school. i am pregnant with a 32 year old man's kid who wants nothing to do withit. we were spending a lot of time together for a while but the minute i told him i found out i was pregnant, he stopped calling and was mean to me even though he was half of the reason. i am on here for support and just to be able to relate with some women who are going through the same thing i am. all of my friends that have babies have the father either in the childs life or in both of their lives. i do believe everything happens for a reason though :) and that is what gets me through.

IM A 20 YR OLD SINGLE MOTHER AND BELIEVE ME MY STORY IS NOT AS BAD AS SOME THAT I HAVE HEARD BUT IT'S NOT A FUN RIDE TO BE ON. I WAS IN COLLEGE AND 19 WHEN I GOT PREG. MY CHILD'S FATHER AND I WERE LIVING TOGETHER AND THEN HE LEFT. WE STILL KEPT A RELATIONSHIP GOING UNTIL I TOLD HIM I WAS PREGNANT. AFTER THAT A LOT WENT DOWN. HE SAID HE DIDN'T WANT TO SEE THE BABY, NOR DID HE WANT HIS FAMILY TO EITHER. HE REALLY HURT ME AND I FELT THREATENED TO GET AN ABORTION....THANK GOD FOR MY MOTHER B/C I DIDN'T DO IT B/C SHE ENCOURAGED ME NOT TO. BUT NOW HE AND I ARE OKAY WITH EACH OTHER...I WANT HIM TO BE APART OF HIS CHILDS LIFE AND MINE TOO. I KNOW SOME MAY BE THINKIN IM CRAZY BUT WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE SO MUCH FORGIVENESS IS ALWAYS A WAY OF STARTING OVER. IM CURRENTLY 9 MONTHS PREG AND SOME WEEKS SO SHE'S ALMOST HERE AND IM EXCITED I KNOW I CAN DO THIS! IT'S GOING TO BE GREAT I WILL JUST HAVE TO KEEP MOVING FORWARD...ANY COMMENTS OR QUESTIONS PLEASE FEEL FREE TO EMAIL ME. THANK YOU

I am a single pregnant women age 25.

i enjoy a good chat and im a very good listener

I am 20 yrs. old and I live with the father of my baby. I am about 2 months now and  I thought things would be going okey but they aren't. This guy and I dated for about 3 yrs. on and off and I do love him very much, but he does not feel the same towards me. I am hurt that he feels that way but I feel like our baby is noy going to have a happy life and thats all I wany. Inever wanted to get pregnant before I was married. This is a blessing though and I don't think it's a mistake but he says things to me that are so hurtfull but he feels that it's just him being honest. I really don't want to go through this pregnancy being depressed b/c I know it won't be good for the baby. I just need someone to talk to.

I'm 19 and im about 7 weeks pregnant.  My ex fiance that i jus met 4 months ago kicked me out of his house and now i have no money for my baby or insurance.  I hear from him sometimes but the arguing still continues and all he tells me that he wnats to go back to his ex.  I am a person that never wanted to get pregnant or have kids, but I loved my ex fiance alot and that is why i believed him when he promised me that were gona have a family together n he will never leave us n he will take care of us.  That is why i let him get me pregnant because I saw how much he wanted us as a family.  I'm living with my parents still and I'm also having problems with them.  I feel so alone and like I'm the only one who wants this baby to be born.  My break up led me to take a shot of vodka one day, I was so lonely n it was the hardest time in my life.  My ex tries to call me but all he cares about is the baby and not me any more.  He threatens to take me to court for me not letting him see his unborn baby.  I cant find a job anywhere and i live back n forth from Wyoming and New Mexico out of my parents house and the dorms.  I plan to give my baby away when its born, hopefully until I have my own place.  Sometimes it gets so hard for me, I wish that my baby would die, sometimes.  I am very ashamed of myself, I hate myself for what I did to myself.  I need someone to talk to me and please give me advice.  I am very sad and I dont want to be crying and lonely any more. 

I am 27 and 7 months pregnant.  I don't know what's worse, being a single mother or being married and miserable.  I am married, have been for 5 years now.  my marriage has been so so, I loved the dad, but the love have died slowly.  While things were getting better for the last 4 months, he came back to drink and do drugs.  That to me is not a problem, but he makes us in the house miserable with his attitude and every time calls me names.  I am the only one working, always been, he has taken care of the house, the cars and our 3 year old son.  We recently bought a house where he has been working for the last 2 months and doing a fantastic job, until he asked me if he could go to the bar because he needs to have fun.  I got furious because I dont have fun, ever, I am always from the house to work and back.  Earlier that day he argued because the doctors fees were due and it is a lot of out of pocket money, yet, he took 200 dollars out and spent every cent.  Not being enough, he comes back in the morning and I found a girls phone in his pocket.  I am so fed up with this bullcrap and I cant get rid of him.  Even when I called the police they cant kick him out because im the one that works and I have the money.  What the hell does that mean? I wish I was by myself.  it is so much easier to be able to handle your money the way you want, to live without any worries, only you and your children, everything you want is yours and not having to share or ask opinions.  I am decided to file for divorce and I want him out.  So all of you that don't know what to do without a man, think again.  I wish I was alone.  I wish he would disappear, i even called the bitchs number hoping to give him away, but didnt happen.  He is having a blast living off of me, and that shit is done.  Please reconsider wanting a undeserving man back to your and your child's life.  Dont get me wrong, I am scared but at the same time I think, wait a minute, i am the one that works, pays bills, runs errands, owns the car, buy and cook food....all I need is me!