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Its not all about me, its all about M.E
'How Do You Cope?'; There is in my opinion no real answer to that question, i personally feel that a large part of coping is done naturally, not just by yourself or family but with the aide of the thing that it causing the grief.
Coping, as stated above, i feel that large and most notably major factor of coping is that of the 'thing' causing the grief. Aiding the 'Grief Giver' are ourselves, the people who mantain are mental capacity and try and control our feelings, alongside ourselves are friends and family, sortly followed by other factors or loves. Yet i still personally feel, that coping is in itself hard yet very natural.
Natural it may be, yet at time we can feel pressured or pushed into the ability to cope. If things are to be done naturally and it is taking a while for things to slot into place then pressure may be felt and things may be caught up, which opens its way into causing upset and even more torment. Even more things to cope with, and a little more strength to do it.
Coping; the truth is, it isnt all about me, its all about M.E.
Without all M.E's twists and turns no matter how evil and wicked, we wouldn't be able to cope in the nature in which we each do. We have things that allow us to continue and motivate us, yet WE are coping. Sometimes punches are thrown, tears are shed and we can tell ourselves we cannot do it, except we always continue to do so. Not only down to ourselves, or those around is but down to M.E.
M.E can break our hearts, break our souls and break our bodies, but M.E continues to be its own worst enemy, in time healing itself and making us stronger.
It may be a war, but its winnable and even more it has one reward we could never ask for ... happiness at the end of it.
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