In Internet Explorer, click "Tools" at the top of your browser and then click "Internet Options".
- In the "Internet Options" dialog box (see below), select the "General" tab, and then click on the following buttons and click "OK" or "Yes" when asked if you want to proceed.
- "Delete Cookies..."
- "Delete Files..."
- "Clear History"
- Select "Delete Cookies", "Delete Files" and "Clear History"
- On the "General" tab and in the "Temporary Internet Files" section, click "Settings...".
- In the "Settings" window, click the button "View Objects" (see below).

- Click "View Objects" in the "Settings" window
- In the "Download Program Files" window, select, right-click and delete all files beginning with "MSN Chat Control". When asked to confirm the deletion, click "Yes".

- Delete all files beginning with MSN "Chat Control"
- Close this window, click "OK", and then "OK" again to save these settings.
- Using Internet Explorer, open your preferred MSN Chat page and join a Chat. This will trigger a download of the new Chat Control. When asked to accept a security warning, click "Yes".
You should now be able to use MSN Chat
now i know you are all hopeing this is all you have to now will with msn do you really think that is going to be that easy of anyone is
on your msn as you open msn you should see on one side a list of things like My Calendar my groups
you need to hit on the my groups and find the room you wish to go to once there use the way the your room has to go to chat that is the only way anyone can get into chatI hope this helps if not please email me or better yet post a post and i will meet you on IM and talk you thro this that is all I have been doing since last night talk thro IM getting ones in to chat
Ladydoc