This site has helped me so much. I felt lost, and like I would NEVER get out of the darkness I lived in. I feel happier, hopeful, and see life now as a new beginning, not an end. You are all very special people and I am thankful for you. God bless you.
Any suggestions for stress and Anxiety? I'm having difficulty sleeping. I've only been seperated for a week, although the marriage has been overmuch longer. Thanks for your help Gary
I've been here for less than 24 hrs and I already feel as though the people here truly understand and care! Tweety and Mizti were wonderful chatting with me last night and wow do they have what it takes to make you look at your situation as if you were an outsider! I can't say that the pain isn't there anymore, because it is and probably will be for some time! But I can say that there is a very dim and far off light beginning to shine at the end of my nightmare tunnel and I know with paticence, counseling, time, and venting I will make it to the end and walk out into a new beautiful world where I can be myself and be happy! There are so many emotions that I've been feeling that at times its hard to figure out which one is on the surface but that's ok because I have every right to be feeling and expressing these emotions because I didn't do anything to deserve this pain my soon to be ex has caused! It will come back on him 10 fold! Thanks Grace aka LivewithGrace
I will lay it all on the line right here right now.......I was a mess when I started going through my divorce.....Many individuals helped me outfrom this site and I am forever greatful. Now with a new career on the horizon and I am slowly but surely getting every bit of my charm and confidence back I want to thank one individual who was there for me no matter what time or what day. Bluemeany aka Top was there for me in ways i cant describe. He helped me through the depression of my divorce and of things that I had done in Iraq that no one can really walk away from. There were many others that helped me and my thoughts go out to them as well. My advice to anyone is look inside yourself for the you that is still in there and you can take the world on in a storm. Thank you all............ Tank aka Greg
Summer of 2003, I thought my life was over. The people in this group were so supportive and also gave me a dose of reality when I needed it. They were my friends when I needed all the friends I could get. There was always someone here to listen when I needed to talk. This group also gave me a place to express what I was feeling when I felt I couldn't dump any more on my family and friends. They offered a life raft when I felt like I was sinking. My husband came back home Dec 2003. So far we are making it. We both learned a lot from what we have been through and are working to rebuild our relationship and make it stronger. I think his affair partner is finally out of the picture. The memories of the hurt, rejection, pain are starting to fade and new memories are taking their place. Thank you for your support when I needed it. Grandma Barlow
3/28/5 have only been on site sporadically for a week..but everyone has been very nice; very understanding and supportive. I'm trying to take one day at a time everyone tells me I'm stronger than I think I am. But I'm not so sure. Anyway, I just filed for divorce last week. Getting PSA this week, then he will be served with both sometime in April. my moods change so quickly. my confidence fades so fast. I feel like this place is my lifeline.
this site has helped me, but i am still not o.k.
well sitting here thinking back to when i found some wonderful people and how they started this site cause we all believed in something that theother site didn't give. is just a beautiful and the most welcoming room yet. and all the help and support from these people ..well i thank you from the bottom of my heart. ....................... tweety....... she would get out her boots and kick some sence into you if she thought it would help ...............mitzi.........what can i say, this loving woman has done so much for me, not sure how on earth to even think on repayin her back with all her kindness, love you dearly..............losta, ......... now this one you have to watch out for...lol. when she gets going look out, she'll bring out the laughter in you, mind me though she has a serious side to her as well, she'll listen for hours on hours to help someone out..............scooby the same way, he'll bend over backward if he could, if thats what you need to lift your spirits, all true friends right down to it .oh ..............one person i can't forget , pimtech, god rest his soul, this gentlemen sat for hours listening to me ramble on, not like the others i mentioned, the good lord took this one way to early, he had alot of goodness inside him, a true friend to the end , hell alway will be in my heart. ..........i've meet so many of you people here, hope i help in some kind of way, i know i han't been around alot lately and i would like to say sorry for that. will try harder to be around more to help out if i can in any way possible ..........................................so the question at hand "have we helped" in my life you all have, lifted me to places i thought i never reached...........for that i thank each and everyone who belongs to this site and those i mentioned above you have a special place in my heart
I have jsut joined the group, how do I post what I want to say where, everyone can read.
