Thanet "Dear Ellen" 2 Thanet's Agony Aunt is here to answer your questions send her an email thanetchat@hotmail.com with your problem Dear Missy Agony Aunt! Not sure if you're still answering emails to this adress but found your email on MSN when i was looking for some help. I needed some help but didnt want to ask any of my family or friends in case any of it gets back to my partner. You'll understand when you realise the reason for me contacting you. Well the problem you see, ive been with my partner for over a year and a half. Although, he's wonderful and can be very loving at times, the honeymoon period of the relationship where we were always hugging and kissing and being generally very happy is over. We still hug and kiss and he tells me he loves me but not as often as before, hardly ever. I know he loves me though, he's not the straying kind and he's never hit me. Well i started working in a factory with him six weeks ago whilst university was out for the summer but whilst i was there i met a man called Adrian. Ady was lovely and a very good friend whilst there (i finished on friday to go back to uni). Although, i think and feel in the end Ady had more than just friendship feelings for me. He would purposely walk into me and would get very nervous with his body language towards me sometimes. When i would be alone and nowhere near my boyfriend he would be very flirty but not try things on, obviously being at work made it difficult. Sometimes when on break together he'd sit on a different table and stare at me. Before i got with my boyfriend i never really got much attention from lads but now im with him i tend to take more care of myself, have my hair done and ive lost some weight. Now i get this attention i quite like it but i feel guilty. On the last day Adrian seemed a lil upset and after work rather than get picked up me nd my boyfriend walked to the pub from work with some friends from work for a drink goodbye, its only a two or three min walk. He walks tht way home too so when we turned for the pub all he could do was turn around and stare as i walked away he looked sad and i felt awful. Now ive finished work i cant stop thinking about him and how lovely he was. My boyfriend knows that adrian liked me but hasnt picked up my feelings. I dont know what to do ive tried looking for him on a regional chat site and blog site and under our towns website but cant find him. I just wanted to keep in touch with him but i feel i like him more than just to be friends. Although, i still love my partner and would be lost without him. What do i do? I never thought id be like this ever!! I just want to lead a normal happy life. Please help i miss him! Thanks so much for your time. Now do you realise why i darent ask friends or family! Thank u soooo much! Firstly, if you have ANY feelings for any other man then you are obviously not that happy with your current partner and you should tell him immediatly so as to not make him think things are ok between you. This is the only fair thing to do and i am sure you would want to know if the tables were turned. Secondly leave it a week or two, so you can see if your heart is into it because you might just be getting the feelings you are from flattery and nothing more .Then send a postcard to the factory/bloke in a humorous way that wouldnt attract attention from the other workers and leave an email contact address on it so that if the bloke is interested in you then he can contact you, if not then he wont of course Good Luck Ellen
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